Honesty lasts the longest.
~ Swedish proverb.

Honesty With Yourself

Honesty with yourself is one of the most important laws of Nature to feel well. So you need to be extremely honest with yourself to make sure that you really enjoy the relationship you are in. It is exactly the same with a work relationship: if you are not totally satisfied, it is not good for your health.

Honesty With Your Partner

Any healthy relationship is based on total honesty and trust towards each other. Yes, it sometimes takes character and courage to tell your partner how you really feel, but it is a must for your health.

So tell your new partner as soon as possible what kind of relationship you are looking for. This will avoid any potentially destructive behaviors later on.

Be aware that most people can sense bad relationships where feelings are fake and not loving. So please, do yourself and the world a favor and end or seriously rethink your relationship if you know it is wrong.

You do not need to fear divorce if you have a totally honest relationship. You would have found out any incompatibilities before marriage...